AJ Ware | Therapist | Shanti Psychotherapy

Meet AJ Ware

Registered Social Worker

MSW RSW

She/They

Connected 

With a previous career as a writer, performer and theatre producer, I have always been known as someone who makes connections. My value system is rooted in the power of human-to-human connection as a generative force for growth and happiness in our lives. I believe that every person has a story worth telling and that true healing happens through genuine connection- whether that’s through a meaningful conversation, shared laughter, or a moment of breakthrough. 

I am dedicated to the support of sexual identity and gender spectra, as these are often issues that are accompanied by feelings of isolation and pain. 

I can support children, youth and young adults with common issues such as overwhelm and anxiety, feelings of depression and trauma, navigating friendships and romantic relationships, improving sexual well-being, as well as parenting support, family therapy and couples therapy. 

Collaborative 

Working in theatre is necessarily collaborative, and that is what makes it transformative. I bring connective collaboration to my work with my clients, not out of habit but because I know that everyone in the room brings vital knowledge to the process. As collaborators, we can connect our understanding in ways that challenge you toward growth, accountability, and healing. I connect with warmth and laughter from a place of loving encouragement. 

In my sessions, I use eclectic, trauma-informed approaches, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Attachment work, Anti-colonial and anti-racist practices, Mindfulness, Arts-based practices, and Nature-based practices. 

About me! 

I am queer and gender fluid and immigrated to Toronto from the US in 2020. I live near High Park with my partner. I’m a step-parent to an awesome kid, and our family is rounded out with the world’s cutest dog, Demi! I find my happiness in connection to nature through gardening, cycling, sailing, camping, and digging my toes into any warm sand I can get to. I fill my cup by seeing live music with people I love and reading, and I really enjoy time spent doing textile arts like weaving, sewing, and embroidery. 

“You were not just born to center your entire existence on work and labour. You were born to heal, to grow, to be of service to yourself and community, to practice, to experiment, to create, to have space, to dream, and to connect.” 

― Tricia Hersey, Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto 

Please reach out to me for a 20-minute no-charge consultation to explore if we may collaborate and connect for a healthier you!

Shanti is excited to announce our new hypnobirthing® group starting soon!Hypnobirthing® is a World Renowned and evidence based childbirth education program for the birthing parent and birthing partner, for a calmer, more confident birth experience.Join us to learn more about self hypnosis, relaxation techniques and increasing your confidence as you prepare for the birth of your baby.Our new hypnobirthing® group will teach you to: trust that your body and baby know how to birth instinctively, as nature intended, deeply relax and much more!Hypnobirthing® parent(s) report their babies are: calmer, more relaxed, sleep better and more! Join us to learn more about self hypnosis, relaxation techniques and increasing your confidence as you prepare for the birth of your baby.#hypnobirthingclass #hypnobirthinggroup #hypnobirthingtoronto #hypnobirthingcanada #hypnotherapist #hypnotherapy #hypnotherapytoronto

Shanti is excited to announce our new hypnobirthing® group starting soon!

Hypnobirthing® is a World Renowned and evidence based childbirth education program for the birthing parent and birthing partner, for a calmer, more confident birth experience.

Join us to learn more about self hypnosis, relaxation techniques and increasing your confidence as you prepare for the birth of your baby.

Our new hypnobirthing® group will teach you to: trust that your body and baby know how to birth instinctively, as nature intended, deeply relax and much more!

Hypnobirthing® parent(s) report their babies are: calmer, more relaxed, sleep better and more! Join us to learn more about self hypnosis, relaxation techniques and increasing your confidence as you prepare for the birth of your baby.

#hypnobirthingclass #hypnobirthinggroup #hypnobirthingtoronto #hypnobirthingcanada #hypnotherapist #hypnotherapy #hypnotherapytoronto
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Just a day in the life of a psychotherapist and private practice owner, doing my best to support others while making time for self care with Fred! After years of practice I’ve learned the importance of balance and taking small moments for myself too. If you want to learn how to scale your practice, reach out for mindset business coaching using the link in our bio! ✨#therapistlife #privatepracticeowner #TherapistGrowth #therapistsupport #mentalhealthmatters #therapistofinstagram

Just a day in the life of a psychotherapist and private practice owner, doing my best to support others while making time for self care with Fred! After years of practice I’ve learned the importance of balance and taking small moments for myself too. If you want to learn how to scale your practice, reach out for mindset business coaching using the link in our bio! ✨

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As a coach for therapists, I help you scale your practice while staying true to your clinical expertise and personal goals. 💼✨

I offer a blend of mindset coaching, business strategies, and tailored support to help you overcome fears, embrace your unique value, and build a thriving practice that’s sustainable and aligned with your vision. 🌱

From goal-driven collaboration to professional development and branding, we’ll work together to create impactful practices that nurture resilience and balance. With 20+ years of experience in trauma care and South Asian Mental Health, I’m dedicated to empowering therapists to reach their full potential.

Let’s grow your practice with compassion, confidence, and clarity. ✨

Contact me using the link in our bio to learn more!

#TherapistGrowth #TherapistSupport #TherapistCoach #BusinessGrowth #MindsetMatters #SouthAsianMentalHealth #TraumaCare #TherapistCommunity #ProfessionalDevelopment #TherapistJourney #SustainableSuccess
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It’s hard to stop apologizing and placing guilt and blame on yourself for things that you often see in a negative light.It’s important to note that asking for help, being yourself, having emotions and prioritizing yourself are things you CAN do and SHOULD do without needing to say sorry.#mentalhealthawareness #selfcompassion #selfcompassionjourney #motivationalquotes #therapymemes #therapytoronto

It’s hard to stop apologizing and placing guilt and blame on yourself for things that you often see in a negative light.

It’s important to note that asking for help, being yourself, having emotions and prioritizing yourself are things you CAN do and SHOULD do without needing to say sorry.

#mentalhealthawareness #selfcompassion #selfcompassionjourney #motivationalquotes #therapymemes #therapytoronto
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Happy endings don’t always look the same, which one are you working towards? ✨

#beproudofyourself #positivethinking #affirmations #positivetherapy #motivationalquotes
#individualtherapy #torontotherapy #selfcarematters #mentalhealthmatters
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Take what you need to hear today, and spend some time reminding yourself of things that are often easy to forget.You are doing your best, and that is what matters!#mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #mentalhealthquotes #compassionfocusedtherapy #motivationalquotes #torontotherapy #mentalhealthcheckin

Take what you need to hear today, and spend some time reminding yourself of things that are often easy to forget.

You are doing your best, and that is what matters!

#mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #mentalhealthquotes #compassionfocusedtherapy #motivationalquotes #torontotherapy #mentalhealthcheckin
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